Find a Pen-Pal


Don't know who to write?

No problem, we can help you find pen-pals.


There are several ways to connect.

Fill out the short questionnaire below and we will connect you to a pen-pal. If you'd like to connect to a pen-pal to discuss politics specifically, fill out the politics questionnaire and we'll connect you to someone who may think differently than you.


Let the letter writing begin!

Start your letter writing - either digitally or by hand - and connect across distance and difference.

Haley Gets her First Pen-Pal Letter

Haley shares her first letter with her senior pen-pal

Find a pen-pal

In Search of Connection

As we face social-distancing and isolation, we do so together. Fill out the questionnaire below and we will connect you to a pen-pal to cross the distance between us through letters.

Let's Get Started - In Search of Connection

Connecting During Covid-19 with letters

Interested in Politics?


If you're interested in discussing politics with a pen-pal through letters, fill out the questionnaire below. We'll match you with a suitable pen-pal who may think differently to start a conversation.

Let's Get Started - Politics

Rotarian Pen-Pals



If you are a Rotarian looking for a pen-pal, please click the button below to be taken to the dedicated Rotarian pen-pal questionnaire.

Contact Us

Want to discuss something different, or have a suggestion for a discussion? Let us know!


Braver Angels Mission

Truth In Between partners with Braver  Angels to help start important discussions through letters.

Braver Angels is a national citizens’ movement to reduce political polarization in the United States by bringing liberals and conservatives together to understand each other beyond stereotypes, forming red/blue community alliances, teaching practical skills for communicating across political differences, and making a strong public argument for depolarization.

We unite red and blue Americans in a working alliance to Depolarize America. Instead of asking people to change their minds about key issues, we give all Americans a chance to better understand each other, to absorb the values and experiences that inform our political philosophies, and to ultimately recognize our common humanity.

Learn More

Braver Angels is a citizens’ organization uniting red and blue Americans in a working alliance to depolarize America.

*We try to understand the other side’s point of view, even if we don’t agree with it

*We engage those we disagree with, looking for common ground and ways to work together

*We support principles that bring us together rather than divide us


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