Find a Pen-Pal

Don't know who to write?

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No problem, we can help you find pen-pals.

There are several ways to connect.

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Find the questionnaire that best matches your interest, or send us a suggestion on a topic. We'll connect you with pen-pals interested in a similar topic, but who may think differently.

Let the letter writing begin!

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Start your letter writing - either digitally or by hand - and connect across distance and difference.

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Interested in Politics?

Politics

If you're interested in discussing politics with a pen-pal through letters, fill out the questionnaire below. We'll match you with a suitable pen-pal who may think differently to start a conversation.

Let's Get Started - Politics

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Interested in Race?

Race & Multiculturalism

If you're interested in discussing race and multiculturalism with a pen-pal through letters, fill out the questionnaire below. We'll match you with a suitable pen-pal who may think differently to start a conversation.

Let's Get Started - Race & Multiculturalism

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Interested in Gender?

Gender

If you're interested in discussing gender with a pen-pal through letters, fill out the questionnaire below. We'll match you with a suitable pen-pal who may think differently to start a conversation.

Let's Get Started - Gender

Contact Us

Want to discuss something different, or have a suggestion for a discussion? Let us know!

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Better Angels Mission

Truth In Between partners with Better Angels to help start important discussions through letters.


Better Angels is a national citizens’ movement to reduce political polarization in the United States by bringing liberals and conservatives together to understand each other beyond stereotypes, forming red/blue community alliances, teaching practical skills for communicating across political differences, and making a strong public argument for depolarization.


We unite red and blue Americans in a working alliance to Depolarize America. Instead of asking people to change their minds about key issues, we give all Americans a chance to better understand each other, to absorb the values and experiences that inform our political philosophies, and to ultimately recognize our common humanity.

Learn More

Better Angels is a citizens’ organization uniting red and blue Americans in a working alliance to depolarize America.

*We try to understand the other side’s point of view, even if we don’t agree with it

*We engage those we disagree with, looking for common ground and ways to work together

*We support principles that bring us together rather than divide us

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